SORRY PO!! (THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS)
Biblical Reference: Luke 17:1; Ephesians 4:31-32
Forgiveness is a spiritual decision to release the person, entity, institution, or group who hurt you, betrayed you from all past hurts and failures, all sense of guilt or loss.
PART 1 - “SORRY PO” - WHEN YOU HURT SOMEONE
FIVE FUNDAMENTAL ASPECTS OF AN APOLOGY:
1.) EXPRESSING REGRET. “I am sorry”
A.) Demonstrate sorrow or regret in your actions and words
B.) Clarify why you are saying sorry – sorry for what?
C.) Don’t justify or give excuses
2.) ACCEPTING RESPONSIBILITY. “I was wrong”
3.) MAKING RESTITUTION. “What can I do to make it right?”
4.) GENUINELY REPENTING “I’ll try not to do that again”
5.) REQUESTING FORGIVENESS. “Will you please forgive me?”
PART 2: “I FORGIVE YOU” – WHEN SOMEONE HURTS YOU
HOW UNFORGIVENESS DESTROYS YOUR LIFE
It is a prison that torments you
It is a disease that afflicts your soul
It is a bondage that paralyzes you
It is an obstruction that snuffs your spiritual growth
It is a poison that destroys your relationships (Matthew 5:7)
1.) FORGIVENESS IS NOT BASE ON FEELINGS
2.) FORGIVENESS IS NOT DEPENDENT ON AN APOLOGY
3.) FORGIVENESS IS A GIFT WE GIVE OURSELVES
4.) FORGIVENESS DOES NOT CHANGE THE PAST BUT IT DOES CHANGE YOUR FUTURE
5.) FORGIVENESS IS A COMMAND WE NEED TO OBEY (Colossians 3:13)
6.) WE FORGIVE SO THAT WE WILL BE FORGIVEN (Mark 11:25)
EMBRACING THE “FORGIVENESS” LIFESTYLE:
1.) RELEASING FORGIVENESS (Ecclesiastes 7:9)
2.) ASKING FORGIVENESS (Matthew 5: 23-24)
3.) PRACTICE FORGIVENESS (Luke 17:3-4)